Relationships

If you don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend you are not cool. You're a loser, nerd, or any other word like these.

This is so much bull! why is this the thought of people???

I was invited to hang out with my friend, and we decided to go to the Riverside Plaza and chill. His sister and her best friend came along too. At one point in the night it was just me, her and her best friend. My friend was away on the phone. a little awkward

So the subject of boyfriends and girlfriends and relationships came up. I just kept my mouth shut. Then the question came to me, "How is your love life?" I simply said, "There is none." And to sum it up, she just said, you need a girlfriend. I didn't say much to this statement, but in my head i was thinking, no, no i do not need a girlfriend. There had been someone sorta mentioned that she knew i liked, and she said, "you should/need to ask her out."...seriously, why??? why ruin a relationship(friends wise)??? If and when the time comes for anything more, then it will happen, i do not want to rush anything. shes a great girl, and i really do not want to ruin our friendship.

and to get off subject for a second. i am not putting down the girl that said this to me, she is not the only one. it just bugs me when people tell me this kind of stuff.


Anyway...you might be thinking(if you know me) "wait a minute Dana, haven't you had girlfriends before?" and the answer is yes, i have. But you learn from your mistakes. I realized that heck, I'm too young for this sort of thing right now. And its high school, i should be happy and living life, not worrying about marriage and future life.

And also if you're wondering, just to clear any rumors or anything up, Yes, there is a girl i like, but No it is nothing serious. nothing wrong with that right? correct me if i am wrong. If and when the time comes for anything to happen, then by Gods plan, let it happen! he knows what i want, and what i need. And he will give me what i really, truly need

But for now, i will live life single, and happy. yeah, I'm happy. life is chill. I'm just hoping that it will stay like this when school starts again.


lemme know what you think about this.